Nowadays, mature people either succeed or fail in their lives. It is not by chance. Everything has its logical causes. Logically, the most essential fundament of the human future is his childhood. Consequently, the most vital part of life is the first 15 years, how we treat a child, and what he hears at his address. As a result, some parents become motivators for their children, while others play the role of abusers traumatizing them. Here, you can find 12 expressions for your children's future development.
Everything is all right; I am here.
Every child imagines his parent as a strong warrior, who he can rely on. This expression gives children a feeling of stability. Moreover, it can make them feel more protected. In particular, it is a helpful expression, especially in uncertain and stressful situations. Thus, it encourages them to rely more on their parents. It also motivates them to take an example from them and not lose themselves in difficult times. It also gives children a sense of security and self-realization.
I am proud of you.
This expression is essential for children to identify and underline their characteristics, interests, and strengths and feel proud of themselves. Thus, it gives them emotional support. It helps children develop positive self-esteem without changing their personalities and staying identical. It also creates an emotional bond between parents and children.
You are important to me.
This expression helps parents emphasize the significance of their children in their lives. Children feel appreciated, the warmest feeling each one would like to sense. It is essential for their emotional and social growth and well-being. Thus, it gives children a sense of self-appreciation.
I am listening to you.
Attention is the most vital thing that parents can give to their children. Neglected children always grow up with childhood traumas, which influence their future life in an unproductive way. However, those whose parents have developed listening skills grow up without any psychological decline. This expression gives a fundamental approach to self-motivation and self-expression. Gradually, they begin to express themselves more clearly, and as a result, they develop healthy communication and cooperation skills, which are essential for a healthy society. Listening also creates trust between two generations. Moreover, by teaching them listening skills, they understand the value of mutual respect.
You can do it; keep trying.
This expression helps children become unbreakable. They start to understand the meaning of the sentence "Success is a succession of failures without losing enthusiasm." quoted by one of the most outstanding leaders, Winston Churchill. It gives them emotional encouragement to stay strong, be persistent, and make efforts to overcome challenges and achieve success without giving up. It also helps them to stay determined, increase possibilities for reaching their goals, and raise their inner faith in their beliefs and principles.
Great job! I love your enthusiasm.
Development that any person has is the result of his efforts. This expression means to acknowledge every effort and accomplishment. It gives children motivation to do more extraordinary things in the future. It is one of the most positive feedbacks in kids' lives. It makes them mentally strong humans ready to overcome every barrier themselves.
You are so creative.
A creative mind is the most vital thing not only for a child but also for an adult. Unfortunately, many videos, reels, and games damage everybody's creativity worldwide. It would be better for a child not to be involved with harmful technology and not to lose creativity, especially in his age of formation of his reasoning skills. Even when children hear such an expression daily, they start to believe in it. As a result, it changes the work of their brains. This expression is a magical affirmation. It could influence the brain positively. There is a similar story about Thomas Edison's life. His mother received a letter from his school stating that his son was an idiot and did not have any intelligence at all. She assured him of his uniqueness, and he progressed and became one of the most talented inventors.
I love your smile.
Smiling is a victory card in life. It opens doors easily. Moreover, it gives continuous positive energy. Both laughing and smiling can boost mood, reduce stressful conditions, enhance health and productivity, and increase vitality. People who smile are more successful than those who do not. Such children are likely to become masters of communication with others, which is much easier. Thus, the expression will make your children always stay positive. It is not by chance that people put a pen between their mouths to receive positive vibes. As a result of such psychological experiments, they smile.
It is okay to make mistakes
This expression is significant for looking at life more maturely. Only being conscious of our mistakes and weaknesses can make us better and force us to progress and move forward. Especially for children, it is essential to feel self-acceptance, whatever they do. It is not by chance that one of the Armenian poets and monks, St. Gregory of Narek, wrote his internationally recognized masterpiece, "The Book of Lamentations." Grigor Narekatsi, known as St. Gregory of Narek, was recognized as a Doctor of the Church by Pope Francis. His genius work is a long monologue, a personal lyric, and a confessional poem, which have magical properties to heal any person mentally, physically, and psychologically. It's a work for self-acceptance and progress.
You are a friendly human. Thank you for helping! How can I help you?
Every child needs to be friendly and to have friends whenever they want. They should always be part of the society in which they live. The development of interconnection between their compatriots and others is essential for them. In society, we should learn not only to communicate with each other but how to give and get help. Helping others is the best skill for self-realization, being not selfish or self-centered. But they also should get help. To not be exploited, a person should receive mutual respect, which he gets when he also learns to ask for help. These three expressions would be the basis for productive interconnections and relationships.
These 12 expressions would help children become successful by staying persistent, learning continuously, working hard and smart, maintaining a positive attitude, building a network, and progressing.
